Officiants for Wedding Ceremony & Vow Renewal

Kahu (officiant) for Wedding Ceremonies

“Kahu” is the Hawaiian word for one who officiates sacred ceremonies. Most of the ceremonies I act as kahu for are intimate weddings with just a few friends and family. Whether with or without religion, all weddings are sacred, transformative moments filled with meaning and purpose. No ceremony is too small to not be sacred.

I am typically available on short notice and work closely with you to craft a ceremony that reflects your unique story.

Kahu for All Faith Traditions

As an interfaith kahu, I help couples of different faith traditions—or those of no faith tradition—celebrate their love in a meaningful way. Are you spiritual but not religious? Agnostic or atheist? I create ceremonies that honor your beliefs and values.

For blended families or multi-faith couples, I ensure everyone feels included and supported throughout the ceremony.

Wedding Vow Renewals

I also serve as kahu for wedding vow renewals, helping couples reaffirm their love and commitment. Children, family, and friends can be included in the ceremony, creating deeper bonding and memorable experiences for everyone.

Together, we can personalize your vows or use my standard template as a foundation to reflect your unique relationship.

Hawaiian Wedding Traditions and Ceremony Enhancements

Hawaiian sacred ceremonies begin with blowing the pu (conch shell) to the four directions, announcing that a sacred ceremony is about to begin. Hawaiian weddings often include flower leis made by local artisans.

I can also help incorporate other traditional elements to make your ceremony even more memorable.

Customizable Ceremony Options

Small intimate weddings with family and friends
Multi-faith and interfaith weddings
Weddings with no religious affiliation
LGBTQ-friendly weddings
Vow renewal ceremonies
Hoʻokupu gratitude ritual
Handfasting
Hawaiian Ring Ceremony

All sacred ceremonies begin with blowing the pu (conch shell) to the four directions. This announces to all that a sacred ceremony is about to begin.

Hawaiian ceremonies traditionally include flower leis of various kinds. I can get leis for you from a local Hawaiian family that makes them up for me by hand.

If you are looking for a dedicated officiant for your wedding ceremony or a wedding vow renewal, then Contact me today!

Frequently Asked Questions

What does a kahu do for a wedding ceremony?

Kahu is the Hawaiian word for officiant of sacred ceremonies, such as weddings. The kahu guides couples through every step of their special day, personalizes vows, and ensures the ceremony is meaningful. No ceremony is too small or too simple to not be sacred.

Can you act as kahu for wedding vow renewals?

Absolutely. I am a seminary ordained, Interfaith Minister and Chaplain. In this context, I act as kahu, helping couples reaffirm their commitment in a personal ceremony that includes family, children, and special traditions.

Can children or blended families be included in the ceremony?

Yes. Including children and blended families adds depth and bonding to the ceremony. I make sure everyone feels involved and appreciated during both weddings and vow renewals.

Do you perform non-religious weddings or ceremonies?

Yes. As an Interfaith Minister, I support people of all faith traditions as well as those of none. I once did a vow renewal where the husband was Catholic and the wife was Hindu. Many ceremonies do not speak to any one religion, or specifically exclude all religion. Regardless, all ceremonies are sacred.

What Hawaiian traditions can be included in my ceremony?

I can incorporate Hawaiian customs like the Hawaiian Ring Ceremony, using hand-crafted flower leis from local artisans as well as helping you to build a hoʻokupu gratitude bundle. The hoʻokupu is especially powerful. These traditions add a unique, sacred touch to your ceremony. All are offered without extra charge.